
it’s always easy to mourn the version of yourself you feel like you “lost,” but you’ve grown. i know firsthand it isn’t easy but try to instead be thankful (to yourself and the universe, not him) for everything you learned about yourself and what you desire in a healthy relationship, and that you found the truth and got out before things went on any longer. i know it can feel really impossible to view these things in a positive light, but i sympathize with you and wish you all the healing 🩷