motherhood seems so fulfilling… then i remember once im a mom, im a mom first and a person for myself second. like your life is your kids. that’s it. that’s so fucking scary to me.
Literally just saw a mom crashing out about how divorce rates are so high that you should be prepared to be a single mom and how hard it is to not just live for yourself and it kinda pushed me away from having kids
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Anonymous4w
fr i can’t do that the moment u decide to keep the baby u r a mother the children don’t even use ur name u just become “mom” in ur house
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Anonymous4w
How the hell does that seem fulfilling to you?
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Anonymous4w
I would love to be a parent if I could be a dad
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Anonymous#24w
damn that’s such a good point 😭
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Anonymous#34w
caring for a life that you created, raising someone to believe they could make the world better somehow, carrying on my family line, all that idk. all that being said tho, i likely will not have kids lmao