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Have a massive crush on my fwb and I think he's also into me? He expressed previously not wanting to entertain a relationship for this school year though. Crashing out bc during platonic nights he still wants kissing/cuddling etc. What do I do?
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Anonymous 6d

He knows I like him too, am I being hella played or is he just emotionally walled off?

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Anonymous 6d

He sounds weird, I’m sorry. It doesn’t make sense. He doesn’t want a relationship but is being touchy/feely with you?? Does he or does he not want a relationship, because you can’t have your cake and eat it too. I think boundaries need to be established. If you can’t commit to me or a relationship, we’re not gonna do all that a relationship entails (like being touchy feely).

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I think you’re being played girl. Protect yourself and leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Exactly my thoughts. He can be extremely oblivious though (trust its actually so bad) so Ive been thinking about sitting down with him and being like "this is basically a relationship. You have this or you dont?" But i wasnt sure if it was just me or not...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Im at the very least considering boundaries to set and making it strictly platonic outside of sex because yeah :( All I want is a title and some more serious time together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Nope, it’s not just you!!😭 I’m really glad you shared & honestly, good on you for catching this. I’ve seen people not realize they’re being led on until they’re too far in & have caught major feelings for a guy who doesn’t even want a relationship🥲😵‍💫 I hope the talk goes well, seriously!!🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Tysm 😭💛

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Of course!!❤️

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