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i don’t know what i did wrong this time. i kept everything to myself, i acted normal and hid all my anxieties and mental issues and he still left. starting to think some people just don’t get a relationship
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Anonymous 11w

He probably sensed you were hiding something and not being real with him. Idk if that’s the case or not, but you should be able to be yourself in a relationship. The right guy will accept you.

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Anonymous 11w

Love, that is not the answer either though. Communication is key. Speak about your mental issues, talk about your anxieties inside and outside of the relationship. But never disrespect your partner while doing so. Never start a fight over those things. Just talk about it, and if they are a good person they’ll understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

like all i did wan not put my emotional shit on him, that’s it. i’m just tired of being ghosted before 3months even hit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

No I get it, I’ve done this too. But I think an emotionally available man would want to be there for you and be mature enough to set boundaries if there’s certain things he can’t support you with or times he’s just not able to. You can keep some things to yourself for processing, but you shouldn’t have to hide how you genuinely feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i’ve tried that. that’s the issue. they always are okay with it at first until they experience a ‘saddy’ session where i just need to lay in bed all day then suddenly im ‘too much’

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