Love, that is not the answer either though. Communication is key. Speak about your mental issues, talk about your anxieties inside and outside of the relationship. But never disrespect your partner while doing so. Never start a fight over those things. Just talk about it, and if they are a good person they’ll understand
No I get it, I’ve done this too. But I think an emotionally available man would want to be there for you and be mature enough to set boundaries if there’s certain things he can’t support you with or times he’s just not able to. You can keep some things to yourself for processing, but you shouldn’t have to hide how you genuinely feel