As an HR rep, I’d much rather have over reporting than under reporting. Over reporting gives me a pulse on our workforce and I can always refer people back to their manager or help them think through conflict resolution. Under reporting means potential discrimination, HWE, safety issues, and a huge balloon of wtf waiting to pop on a random Tuesday.
I understand this point and I’m not saying that issues should be ignored forever. I’m just saying that step one shouldn’t be HR the first step should be asking them to stop. Obvs if something is completely outrageous it should go right to them but little petty things are not HR worthy especially a first offense