Like the amount of embarrassment *I* personally feel when people do it just completely tears me apart and makes me feel like I don’t want to interact with you anymore. I can feel the energy that you have now started to talk to me like I’m a 5 year old asking if I can play on your phone. Idk if you realize it but I do. And just because I am on the very high functioning level of autism and can’t grasp most social cues doesn’t mean I’m fucking stupid and can’t see you widen your eyes in realization