
having a goth phase isn’t normal having a gay phase isn’t normal having a sporty phase isn’t normal having a theater phase isn’t normal do u see how fucking stupid that sounds? grow up and realise not everyone is gonna be the perfect pretty little princess u think u are ❤️ some people have gone thru things u don’t know abt and u immediately dissing on them is immature and shows js how smart u rlly are
I think people don’t understand people who grew up in small red towns. I did and while I never said slurs that weren’t my own, a kid I went to school with was sooooo homophobic. He graduated, went to college, and is now married to his husband. People forget children are easy to manipulate
Sorry that happened to your friend but im sticking what what I said especially when there are many people who are affected by those actions. Cheers for your friend for changing but just because people change doesn’t mean the trauma and its effects towards the people who were victims towards racism is gone.
Because it’s not normal, it’s absurd, damaging, and harmful. But also the thing is you mentioned that we shouldn’t be making judgments and in return I said I will stick to what I said and will continue to make judgments against anyone that was racist towards others that were affected by it. Thank you! If you didn’t understand my post but multiple others did I think it would be nice of you to sit and examine the other comments of others who did and the post a bit more
I’m specifically addressing how you’re judging people who’ve corrected not only their beliefs, but also their actions. if someone was racist in middle school but came out as an active advocate, I judge that they’re an amazing person for their willingness to challenge their stance.
where in my post are in any of my replies that I have said each person chooses to be racist. let me repeat it to you because I don’t think you seen it or read it correctly that I am going to continue to make those judgments because other children was facing that racism, yes it’s horrible children are being groomed into being racist but that’s not gonna make take back my words. But if you want to take it that way go ahead I don’t care, I’m standing on what I said.
Just because they “corrected” themselves doesn’t erase the racism actions they had, I don’t know how many times I need to repeat this. I’m going to judge them based off their past actions just like I will to their current actions. I’m not going to praise someone for not being racist anymore. Sorry!
children are easily influenced by the world around them i grew up in a little conservative town, raised by racist parents and limited internet access, there was no colored kids in my school, i didn’t use slurs or hate colored people but when i was exposed to the real world i of course had some different views that i had to learn were wrong. it wasn’t my fault i grew up in a town where everyone called each other the f slur and the n word ❤️ it wasn’t my fault that i wasn’t educated correctly
i was 7 when i saw a black person for the first time and my dad called him the n word and told me thats what they were. i didn’t talk to a black petson till highschool bc i was raised in a small conservative religious school. its not my fault that the wrong ideas were drilled into my head since birth 😘 since then ive grown and learned its wrong but u cant hate someone for something they didnt have any control over
I literally didn’t, I told them I’m sorry that happened to your friend but that doesn’t erase the effects that happened to the others. I have been saying that the entire time, in one of my comments to them I said “just because they corrected themselves doesn’t mean it erases the trauma and affects that happened towards the others is erased”
Both of those comments are different discussions because neither number 5 friend or number 8 knew better since they obviously grew up in households that groomed them into this. This post was and is targeted towards people who obviously knew better than to be racist but yet still was racists. my intention for this post was not for children that was obviously groomed into it but for the people who know better and was racist in middle school and high school and now too