Anonymous #30 17w

He would indefinitely sleep in the ground

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Anonymous #38 17w

Omg I love that 🤣

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Anonymous #3 17w

Yes let’s all blame the woman and not the man for having this behavior right????

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Anonymous #49 17w

Exactly it just shows how women are still seen and objectified in society

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Anonymous #13 17w

also why are girls telling her to “choose better?” WHAT THE HELL? it’s not like she knew he was gonna act like this prior to dating him. women piss me off sometimes.

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Anonymous #35 17w

LMAOOO I love you internet stranger.

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Anonymous #55 17w

😂thank you, love you too! 🫶🏾

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Anonymous sproutedseedling 17w

cut it off!!!!!!

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“Male loneliness epidemic” they’re not shaping up they’re complaining and making it women’s problem

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You sound really bitter pls heal.

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Anonymous #3 17w

I had a similar thought but perhaps you could’ve worded it better. My man is an angel but I had shitty guys until him, you’re blinded by the idea of love until you find the one. Spread kindness 😘 OP deserves to be listened to and loved properly too queen

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Anonymous #3 17w

You know, very often in a relationship they will be perfect in the beginning and then this behavior slowly starts to come out… if he was like this all the time since the start they probably wouldn’t have even started dating

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Anonymous #60 17w

Yeah you’re right. But also if women would just disregard those men in general the women would be better off and it would be the best decision for her

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Anonymous #57 17w

I see where you’re coming from, but a lot of men don’t have the same heart that you do. They’ll lie, manipulate, harass until they get what they want. Wear a mask “I’m a good guy” until they feel comfortable to take it off and suddenly your lives are so entwined it’s difficult to escape. Women also get judged by society for leaving their partners “oh I’m sure he was just having a bad day” “oh don’t you think you’re being a bit harsh?” “He might be stressed out.”

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Anonymous #57 17w

Saying to “chose better” is very naive

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Anonymous #60 17w

Ok, I see what you mean now. Thank you for explaining that to me. I guess I just lack personal experience with this so thank you for giving me perspective

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Anonymous #57 17w

Of course! It’s refreshing that you’re so open minded to different perspectives. :) stay safe out there

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Anonymous #66 17w

yes, but he also probably didn't just say this randomly and has shown other red flags beforehand

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Anonymous reinm 17w

both are to blame. men are shitty but let's be fr women also aren't damsels in distress 😂. yes men need to change and they're rarely held accountable, but the women who stay and try to fix them are to blame as well idc. that's like burning yourself on the stove, and putting your hand back in the stove and burning it again.

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Anonymous #64 17w

she does, that's why she should leave and attempt to choose better afterward

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Anonymous #7 17w

or just leave, that's the problem now 😂

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Anonymous #60 17w

lmao girl stfu 😂 why does everyone hate accountability

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Anonymous #3 17w

Idk why you’re all assuming these things about their relationship tho when she hasn’t said anything beyond this one situation

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Anonymous #66 17w

Like yes I think that she should probably leave since he’s acting like this but maybe he’s been great until now and this is a new thing she’s seeing for the first time

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Anonymous #60 17w

I mean, also there is a general loneliness epidemic with everyone and ones who are less brash are less likely to be making friends and close relationships. A man who has the audacity to say something like that in the middle of a vent also is more likely to have the audacity to approach someone, most of them don’t

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Anonymous #66 17w

Sometimes there are warning signs in the beginning but we get so enamoured it’s hard to see them

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I mean, “choose better” is condescending af, especially given he probably wasn’t like this at first, but that man also isn’t here to read our comments and OP should really break up with him if she’s able, that’s nuts

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Anonymous #28 17w

Yes but also I think the act of biting it would feel gross

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yea that made no sense, hand your mom the phone 😂. the only reason you felt the need to respond is probably because you're dumb asl when it comes to relationships lol

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yeah take accountability for having a poor choice in niggas😂 you BARELY made sense! you dumber than 2 turkeys I bet yours would use u for that throat just like hers is😭!

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Anonymous #66 17w

assuming what? that she should choose better by leaving or..?

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ahh, yes just say that instead of saying actual logic 😂. hope those boys keep playing you and you keep allowing it like the slow girl you are 💓

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"what logic do i need be fr" yea there's absolutely no hope for you 😂😂😂 because what kind of question.. my statement still stands lol

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girlll somebody reported me prolly your weak ass 😂

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"Girl I already no" you're actually dumb asf lmaoo. you don't the difference between basic homophones, that explains your previous question 😭😭😭

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that literally wasn't me Imao. someone's def ragebaiting 😂 i don't even type like that. but you replied to me and said idk what accountability means. so...

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Borderline harassment… by her man? Girl pls, you sound dumb. If you don’t care, why you in here proclaiming harassment for people like you Dr. Phil with a pride flag? If u a lesbian stop dick riding in the comments.

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not you lying about how you were typing so you don't look dumb 😂😂😂. that's even more embarrassing. i bet i could bya irl tho 🤨

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Have you ever walked a little faster After midnight when you're all alone? Have you ever pulled your jacket tighter While pretending that you're on the phone? Have you ever held your tongue When someone tried to call you "baby"? If you say a word, he's gonna call you crazy

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Well, I have and she has, too We all know that it's not all men We all know that it's not all men But it's some of them So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless

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We say "no" but they still hear "yes" Blame our clothes and it's not all men But it's all women So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless

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Have you ever blamed yourself for drinking Thinking maybe you're the reason why? Have they ever said that you were lying 'Cause he's handsome and he's way too nice? Have you ever felt like you were beaten but they left no bruises?

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If you tell the truth, they say his life is ruined Well, I have and she has, too

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And their words are like a bad tattoo Too prude She was asking for it Trust issues, bad news She was fucking boring She was such a whore and ugly in the morning

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And it's not all men but it's all women (But it's all, but it's all women) (But it's all, but it's all women)

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Anonymous #93 17w

She’s with a man that’s selfish and lacks 100% lacks empathy. This is a huge red flag

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Anonymous #57 17w

Men are stupid and don’t think. You have to let them know what’s wrong or they’ll never learn. No one is perfect and knowing how to communicate and understand each other is a green flag. Judging someone from one anonymous post and immediately thinking of breaking up when anything gets too hard is a red flag.

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It’s a song about “not all men” while I completely agree that it’s not all men I feel like that derails the conversation.

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