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what do you call it when a guy said ‘just friends’ in May (hasnt mentioned it since), but we sleep together/cuddle, he kisses my nose, grabs my waist, acts jealous, talks to me constantly… and I’m literally doing Thanksgiving with his family ??
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Anonymous 3w

A situationship, define that shit or leave bc he better not be using u like a gf and not calling u a gf

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Anonymous 3w

its called hes taking advantage of you

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Anonymous 3w

I agree with #1 if he doesn’t call you his gf then there is not point in trying to be something.

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Anonymous 3w

he’s using youuuuuuuu

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Anonymous 3w

there’s so much more but it wont fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah hun, it’s been 6 months and he hasn’t one time mentioned you as his girlfriend, so you’re just a friend and you should be concerned if he has other “friends”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

even though he’s the one driving 6+ hours to visit me for a weekend

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

he also travels HOURS to visit me though, and makes sure that i eat and keep my health straight and keeps talking about how excited he is for me to meet his mom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

and yet he’s fine just being friends and doesn’t care to make things exclusive with you. you already seem to have your mind made up about this tho so good luck bc i fear you’re going to need it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

if he isnt jumping at the opportunity to make it office and exclusive immediately right now then he will never do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

official***

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

i was providing more context because i’m neurodivergent and genuinely have no idea how to read this, and historically a third party’s perspective can help my understand what’s going on better. i don’t “have my mind made up”, actually it’s the opposite. i’m unbelievably confused (hence my post)

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