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The way people are nitpicking everything Erica Kirk does because “does that look like a grieving widow” annoys me. Not because I like her or agree with her on anything— I’m not a fan. But because they’re making broad statements that harm other widows
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Anonymous 5d

With the way people are commenting on things they’re basically saying widows should be wearing all black and sitting in their room with the lights out crying for months. Everyone grieves differently. My mom absolutely fell apart when my father passed but you wouldn’t know it by looking at her going to a concert only a month later. By judging people you don’t like for how they grieve you also make other people feel judged for how they grieve

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Anonymous 5d

yeah that’s true but she did also just open a dating app immediately after and advertise it by saying she’s on it so that’s at least a bit out of the norm

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I didn’t see that. That is odd The specific incident that caused this post is because someone made a post about the pants she was wearing being unbecoming for a widow and I’m like Clothes??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

yeah that’s just crazy

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