porn is cheating imo

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I had a big problem with it in my relationship, men’s brains just think so much differently than women which isn’t an excuse. Me and my boyfriend got through it and it took a while to fix things on his end and also my trust. Porn is like an addiction it’s hard and tough for both people in relationships. The situation is more common than people talk about, it’s just a matter of getting him to realize how much it hurts your feelings and boundaries.

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I asked my ex to stop and he said he did but he was a liar I feel like it can become an addiction and create false realities for some. if he respects you and is not addicted, if you tell him you don’t like it he should stop

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My (cheating, mind you) ex always watched porn and I hated it and considered it cheating. I caught him early on and he told me he would stop, and then I saw it on his phone again weeks later and it fucked w me tbh. Towards the end of our relationship I found out when he was in the mood but I wasn’t/was busy, he would go to the bathroom and jerk off while watching porn (I was studying for a test!)

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