Damn, this feels like someone told or asked you to drop your ambitions for a man. Yet some women do drop it by their own chance, and if others are in the same situational boat. Like VERY SIMILAR to where it would benefit their well being or mentality, then go for it. Like I wanna stop working when I have kids, I need a break for 1-3 years for kids, or 2 breaks. It is better for kids mental development anyways