Girl Talk on Yik Yak | my sister does this thing where when she’s with someone else she’ll ignore my call (which is valid) but when we’re together she has no problem picking up when someone calls her and she ignores me irl and talks on the phone. is that valid to be mad over😭

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my sister does this thing where when she’s with someone else she’ll ignore my call (which is valid) but when we’re together she has no problem picking up when someone calls her and she ignores me irl and talks on the phone. is that valid to be mad over😭

Anonymous 13w

valid to be mad over yeah i do think it’s one of those things where ur more likely to push boundaries w ur sibling than your friends but u can tell her to stop

Anonymous 13w

ngl i have done this. i think it's just bc i'm more comfortable with my sister? like i know she won't care, i feel more comfortable doing a rude thing to her than to a friend lmaooo like i don't want to ignore my friend but my sister is my sister she'll understand yk

Anonymous 13w

u should tell her, idk, i noticed lately people say “oh it’s just sibling love / bickering” when it’s literally emotional abuse 😭😭 idk why emotional abuse is so normalized with siblings, im not saying this is what it is btw just an observation in general about things

Anonymous

#2 13w

and see i can get that every once in a while, but a “hey sorry i’m with my sister right now i’ll call you later” would be nice every once in a while. but yea that’s a good way of putting it

Anonymous

#1 13w

yea that makes sense, i just gotta figure out how to talk to her about it lmao

Anonymous

OP 13w

yeah you should def tell her that. i don't see it as big of a deal personally, i wouldn't be mad if she did that to me, bc i know the love we have for each other is greater so we don't need to prove it like we do for friends. that's a weird way of putting it but 😭 like i know my sister doesn't mean anything by it if she ignores me but a friend might take that the wrong way

Anonymous

#2 13w

i think it hurts me more bcuz my love language is time spent, where like hers is gifts, so i go out of my way to bring her food or something when i visit. idk im definitely taking it too personally lmao.

Anonymous

OP 13w

no no if it's something that hurts your feelings you are valid for that! just let her know, she probably doesn't even realize you think anything of it

Anonymous

OP 13w

honestly she’s ur sister just say hey bitch stop picking up the damn phone when i’m talking to you😭😭