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Reposting because I really need advice
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Girl Talk 5w
I just went on a date with one of my guy friends I got to know over the summer. It was nice, but he seemed nervous and barely talked to me. Should I mention it to him, or just go on another date and see if it gets better?
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Anonymous 5w

He may just want a friend! That’s okay if you have a crush too because good things take time to develop. Dont pressure him or yourself into thinking you have to make a decision on whether you should take it further rn. I think what you have rn is great and it leaves room for a relationship or a good friendship. Just leave it as is and wait

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He asked me out though. Like asked me to be his girlfriend, and I was the one that said we should go on a few dates and hang out more before we make anything official. He said he’s liked me all summer, so I’m confused why he acts so platonic when we hang out or go on dates now.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well then it’s something to discuss. Tell him you don’t like the mixed signals he’s giving. You can say anything but it’s just how you say it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I talked to him last night and I’m glad I did. He said he didn’t know he was coming off that way and would change it. And now we’re having another date at the drive in theater tomorrow night.

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