
I’ll always be a girls girl at heart but I started transitioning a few months back and let me tell you they’re 100% worse without women around too. The amount of heinous shit I’ve heard and called out and then they act like they’ve never been told to knock it off before. I’m milking the new privilege to call them out but it’s so uncomfortable because they’re genuinely nasty creatures
why don’t you make your own post? why is this only ever brought up when the conversation is about men? yes both genders obviously do it but asking “what about x group” does nothing but derail the conversation which is that men joke about rape much much MUCH more often than anyone else
I don’t because it’s not like I want to be friends with someone like that so I’m not going to spend lots of time with them and honestly I don’t want them to feel safe around me. They’re also really bad at generalizing in my experience so if you go “why would you say that? That’s really weird bro” they get all flustered about what they said but will still say other bullshit. Letting it continue just to see what they say isn’t gonna fix the issue of them saying shit so I try to shut it down
Ok but why are you just fine with sexually harassing each other? I get the lil fake flirt or letting friends know they are in fact that bitch but guys are out here with the sole purpose of trying to make each other feel uncomfortable and harassed. Why? Why are you putting up with it and why aren’t you standing up for others when they’re clearly uncomfortable with it and it’s clearly not an appropriate situation or action? The only thing you’re doing is showing you’re not a safe person to go to
Not put up with it?!? Tell people it’s not appropriate and they’re fucked for thinking it is. Tell them they’re not funny and they’re causing harm to others. Tell them their behavior is gross and they’re not safe people. Like??? Last time someone groped me they got slapped upside the head. Last time someone was a racist twat around me they were told they were a racist twat. Just have some values and stand on them bro
When someone makes rape jokes or finds it funny to assault others and you just “forgive them and move on” then yeah you’re still at the very least complaisant and unsafe. No adverse reaction IS telling them their behavior is fine. Why would anyone feel safe confiding in someone that did nothing and went along with rape jokes and assaults?