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when will men stop joking about rape.
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Anonymous 2w

I’ll always be a girls girl at heart but I started transitioning a few months back and let me tell you they’re 100% worse without women around too. The amount of heinous shit I’ve heard and called out and then they act like they’ve never been told to knock it off before. I’m milking the new privilege to call them out but it’s so uncomfortable because they’re genuinely nasty creatures

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Anonymous 2w

i told a dude abt being recorded without consent and less than an hr later he tried to make a joke surrounding tht topic

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Anonymous 2w

i told a guy about being molested and he asked what he looked like and then held the phone to his face and asked if they looked alike

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Anonymous 2w

When they stop actually doing it

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Anonymous 2w

When more people say “that’s not funny and it hurts people.” In response.

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Anonymous 2w

never. they are men

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Anonymous 2w

as soon as we have equal rights (never)

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Anonymous 2w

when we all collectively stop marrying and birthing males

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Anonymous 2w

We need “I who have never known men” to become a reality

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Anonymous 2w

Makes me sick, it’s not something to joke about at all

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Anonymous 2w

What about the women that do the same?

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t see nothing wrong with making jokes about that. I mean, I witnessed it as a kid so I have the right to joke about it.

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Anonymous 2w

When it stops being funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

that’s awful. i was at a floor meeting for college and some guy was joking about sexual misconduct and consent to one of his other guy friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i hope he got attacked

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

his other friends surrounding him were laughing too. like stfu genuinely 😐😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I hope he wipes out on his scooter

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

They’re also the problem, there’s js less women than men that do

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

why don’t you make your own post? why is this only ever brought up when the conversation is about men? yes both genders obviously do it but asking “what about x group” does nothing but derail the conversation which is that men joke about rape much much MUCH more often than anyone else

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t because it’s not like I want to be friends with someone like that so I’m not going to spend lots of time with them and honestly I don’t want them to feel safe around me. They’re also really bad at generalizing in my experience so if you go “why would you say that? That’s really weird bro” they get all flustered about what they said but will still say other bullshit. Letting it continue just to see what they say isn’t gonna fix the issue of them saying shit so I try to shut it down

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Anonymous 2w

You’re actually stupid. She’s obviously talking about during a sexual act

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Transitioning? Like changing genders?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

Loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

but when women joke about abortion suddenly it’s awful

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

100 men vs staying on topic and not using the whataboutism card to mimimize the issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

genuinely who raised these creatures holy fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

With the way they act I’m assuming nobody because they’re on some lord of the flies type shit

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Anonymous 2w

here’s the thing: the only way misogyny is going to get better isn’t just by calling men out when other women are around—you need to call men out in male-only spaces too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

Yeah. For some reason dudes thought I would miraculously be on their side after coming out like ????

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Anonymous 2w

Ok but why are you just fine with sexually harassing each other? I get the lil fake flirt or letting friends know they are in fact that bitch but guys are out here with the sole purpose of trying to make each other feel uncomfortable and harassed. Why? Why are you putting up with it and why aren’t you standing up for others when they’re clearly uncomfortable with it and it’s clearly not an appropriate situation or action? The only thing you’re doing is showing you’re not a safe person to go to

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

I hope you fall in a ditch and break your fucking spinal chord

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Anonymous 2w

CALL PEOPLE OUT FOR THAT SHIT WTF

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Anonymous 2w

Not put up with it?!? Tell people it’s not appropriate and they’re fucked for thinking it is. Tell them they’re not funny and they’re causing harm to others. Tell them their behavior is gross and they’re not safe people. Like??? Last time someone groped me they got slapped upside the head. Last time someone was a racist twat around me they were told they were a racist twat. Just have some values and stand on them bro

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Anonymous 2w

When someone makes rape jokes or finds it funny to assault others and you just “forgive them and move on” then yeah you’re still at the very least complaisant and unsafe. No adverse reaction IS telling them their behavior is fine. Why would anyone feel safe confiding in someone that did nothing and went along with rape jokes and assaults?

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 2w

Hey so that’s like not even close to how it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 2w

are you fucking stupid

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