Anonymous #1 3w

That’s how I feel! Like what are we otp for? And she’s kinda a dry texter too

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Anonymous OP 3w

Wellll idk about yours but mine ended up not wanting to date me 💀

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Anonymous #1 3w

We never discussed dating. Just fwb. The problem for me is she gets mad when we don’t talk and sometimes it comes off as she wants more than fwb

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Anonymous #1 3w

She also was kinda interrogating me when I told her I had a friend over

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Anonymous OP 3w

yeahhh she wants more than fwb and i think u might need to break it off

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Anonymous OP 3w

Well yeah he wanted to be fwb too. Maybe u could ask her why she gets mad and why she’s coming off as more than fwb?

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’ve been trying to figure out how to ask. I know that “what are we” conversations can be awkward

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Anonymous #2 3w

Why do you say that? I don’t mind being more than fwb I just want her to communicate

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Anonymous OP 3w

i think interrogating u abt ur friend is not really appropriate for an fwb relationship

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Anonymous OP 3w

They are maybe u can js not say “what are we” though because it’s like ur forcing the other person to reveal their hand to u

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Anonymous #2 3w

I agree. I don’t feel like I owe her anything. It felt kinda possessive

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Anonymous OP 3w

yeah if ur getting that vibe i’d say trust ur gut on this

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Anonymous #2 3w

I try to give her grace cause she has some medical issues going on and she could genuinely just want some company

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Anonymous OP 3w

that’s true. but also i think we’re smarter than we give ourselves credit for and if ur really getting a vibe that it’s more than platonic i think u shouldn’t dismiss the signs

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Anonymous #2 3w

I agree. I’ve definitely had my guard up

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Anonymous #2 3w

but if u could just ask. maybe her idea of fwb is emphasis on the friends and yours is emphasis on the benefits

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Anonymous OP 3w

She could be also trying to not overstep since she knows it’s fwb. Communication is double sided and she might not feel like you’d be open to talking about it?

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Anonymous #2 3w

Well she just came off so strong sexually. Like this is what she said

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Anonymous OP 3w

ok so since ur answer said u were open to a ltr developing i can def see why she might be feeling more possessive. i think you might need to make it clear that you dont want a relationship and only want a fwb

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Anonymous #2 3w

I’m really not opposed to a relationship tho. I just want companionship. Someone to spend time with. And sex would also be nice

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Anonymous OP 3w

oh i totally missed earlier when u said that. ok YEAH so really u just need to ask her about it and be the one to broach the conversation i think. i’m sure she’s giving u signs she’s interested

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Anonymous #2 3w

I think that’s just the hard part for me. How to bring it up

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Anonymous OP 2w

lowkey u just have to go for it. there’s no right way and it’s never gonna feel like the right time

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