Anonymous #1 4w

I don't even think to conflate a persons personality with their place in a family, like idek how you do that to everyone you know. You're focusing way too much on nitpicking other people and probably not enough time on yourself

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Anonymous #1 4w

not OP but i honestly see a LOT of eldest daughters putting themselves in situations where they basically force themselves into this weird mothering role, even if the person on the receiving end doesn’t want you to. i also see a lot of like self victimization as well as this weird superiority complex/condescending attitude that comes off like they think they’re more mature or better than other people just bc they had younger siblings

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Anonymous #2 4w

Clock it

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Anonymous OP 4w

I was just seeing a pattern with my friend groups and stuff and how the other eldest children were always drained and exhausted around our friends who were only children or youngest children. One of them confided in me that it was exhausting bc they are used to having attention all the time (in our friends family unit) so if they(youngest/onky) wanted to go somewhere it was like we’re going here and that’s it??? I really was just trying to see if other felt like me and my friends or if it was

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Anonymous #1 4w

Something I myself needed to work on

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Anonymous #1 4w

bruh that just means you’re a pushover, it has NOTHING to do with familial roles. you can’t just let people walk all over you and then complain you’re “exhausted” dealing with it when you’ve done nothing to actually address their behavior

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Anonymous #2 4w

Ah I see! Okay thank you I’ll try to work on this and myself I appreciate that :)

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