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One thing I rlly struggle with is having empathy for ppl who claim they can’t cook & they think it’s cute or funny. Like there’s no way u can’t make pancakes with the amount of books, blogs & vids out there to GUIDE YOU step by step
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Anonymous 8w

I understand that some ppl don’t get taught how to cook but as an adult you really just need to figure it out. Get a meat thermometer, get a couple cook books that teach the basics, watch a few YouTube videos like the information is out there 😭

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Anonymous 8w

I think they just need to say they can’t follow directions atp

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Anonymous 8w

every time i cook it never comes out like the recipe. it’s edible, but it’s never too good. literally no one in my family will try my food even if they’ve never eaten it before and it pisses me off 😭 i actually suck at cooking but i don’t find it cute or funny it’s annoying

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Anonymous 8w

No exactly and for me what got me into baking specifically was that I love video games and there’s so many recipes based on a certain game / character

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Anonymous 8w

i cannot get pancakes right and it’s so frustrating 😭 but i can bake decently and i can cook basic dishes, i just always burn or undercook my pancakes for some reason

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Anonymous 8w

i think it also depends on various factors. i say “i can’t cook” and i mean i can’t just make a dish on the fly, i need a recipe. i also have a really bad habit of balancing everything alone and burning things bc my attention is spread too thin. but i hateeeeeee when people won’t even try bc “i never learned 🥺” girl, read.

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Anonymous 8w

No really. Cuz, how do you keep yourself fed? Takeouts everyday???? Irresponsible

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Anonymous 8w

i think they mean they dont WANT to cook lol

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Anonymous 8w

i bet i’d be a fine cook if i actually did but i really don’t. 100% a life skill i need to have but i have an apartment next year so ill figure it out

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Anonymous 8w

i hate cooking and this might ruffle feathers but i also refuse to cook for other people/a partner etc… however i can cook anything for myself if i want it.

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Anonymous 8w

I just say I can't cook so my family will never asks me to make them anything 💀

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Anonymous 8w

There are a lot of basic skills and general knowledge that it’s often assumed you already have and know in recipes, which can make it hard if you don’t. I’m working on building my basic skills up and incorporating more ingredients into my regular cooking bit by bit, but I don’t really enjoy cooking and I find the planning and multitasking really challenging, so progress is slow. I do think it’s important to learn, but it isn’t as simple as “read a book.”

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Anonymous 8w

I can follow recipes well, I just greatly dislike cooking most things

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Anonymous 8w

not to mention the literal fucking instructions on the box IT COMES IN

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Anonymous 8w

There even boxed pancakes that you just add water to if you really just can’t be bothered to measure out flour and sugar. Cooking isn’t that hard so many things come with instructions. I hate that people refuse to try

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Anonymous 8w

see i say i can’t cook, but what i mean is i can’t have ✨fun✨ cooking and i don’t know how to be ✨creative✨ with cooking. like i can follow a recipe, but i will be anxious the entire time lmao. but i can do basic cooking. i just never make that distinction. i will be doing that from now on lmao. didn’t realize that came off as incompetent, but i see it now😭

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Anonymous replying to -> cyborgirl 8w

Not wanting to cook vs not having the ability to are two dif things imo. If u don’t wanna cook then cool but ppl who are like “omg im such an awful cook like I cannntttt cook” is embarrassing idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Tbh I’d get so sick of takeout everyday 😭 I also just feel bad for ppl who can’t make whatever they’re craving

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Lots of snacks lolll

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

keep practicing, you’ll get it!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

Tbh I was like this too. I just learned what flavors went well together & basic ratios and made shit up as I went along 😭 I use recipes for cooking times & temps if I’m making something new & that’s abt it! I also use them as a VERY loose guide for a flavor profile :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

it’s been yearsss since i started to try cooking for myself 😭 yet i feel no progress has been made

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Anonymous replying to -> cyborgirl 8w

So, still irresponsible.

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Anonymous 8w

exactlyyy

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Anonymous 8w

wait wdym

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