i’m ngl if i was a guy id say the same thing. i dont want to be a parent and if my partner didn’t want to have an abortion i’d just pay too. if he doesn’t want kids and you do it’s better to break up now though bc that’s not something you can compromise on

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you’re only 20, you shouldn’t be upset that he said that. however, if you see yourself being with him long term, it’s worth it to ask how he feels about having children later down the line. how long have yall been together?

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it doesn’t matter if you do or don’t want kids, I would not be still in a relationship with a man who said he’d abandon me if the situation presented itself. good luck Charlie.

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like ofc i wanna be a mom one day, but he told me he doesn’t necessarily dream of being a dad. so i just don’t know if it’s age turning him away or the fact that he thinks he doesn’t want to be a parent

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