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What do you do when you love someone but you are also causing them emotional suffering over and over and the last thing you want to do is hurt them but you know your not at a point in life where that change is possible to stop hurting that person??
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Anonymous 7w

you leave

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Anonymous 7w

honestly, don’t leave unless it’s what you want. they’re a grownup, they need to make their own choices. i say this having been the other person in this scenario

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Anonymous 7w

As 1 said, you leave. You realised you’re causing harm, now you need to separate yourself from them.

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Anonymous 7w

You dont leave you put on your big girl pants and have a conversation.

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Anonymous 7w

Therapy girl

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