no i totally get what you mean. like those are fine goals to have in addition to other things but when that’s the ONLY thing you want to do with your life… basing your future plans off of other people like that is a recipe for failure. what happens if you get a divorce? if you can’t have kids?? is the rest of your life not going to matter???

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For context. This is about my friend thinking when she hits 30 she’s gonna get married and have kids and that’s IT. Those are her only plans for 30. Like ?? Your life doesn’t end at 30. It doesn’t end after getting married and having kids. 30 is still so young

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Nope, that’s it. I would like to include owing some land to that too tho

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