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How do I tell my friend to stop blowing her friends off for her loser ass boyfriend. I tried privately talking to her like “hey I miss you, it’s hard when you constantly prioritize this guy” and she got defensive and cried in the bathroom for 15 minutes.
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Anonymous 5d

you can’t save her

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Anonymous 5d

loser ass bf might be trying to isolate her or they’re being cringe if you’ve tried talking to her, you could do one last attempt and then i think you stop trying to reach out.

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Anonymous 5d

in the same boat bro (except they got engaged in 2 weeks of knowing each other so ig this is the rest of our friendship 😍)

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Anonymous 5d

this is like my exact situation and it just sucks cause she prioritizes him sm and he’s a boring pos, and i’ve tried saying something but she just shuts down so it’s not worth it imo to ruin the friendship, just gotta let it run its course

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Yeahhh she said she was “in therapy to help her manage her time” but it’s not working, she’s the one who insists on going out to meals all the time, she invites him to sleep at her shared apartment like 4 times a week, she’s doing all the initiating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

anxious attachment which ultimately that’s something she needs to come terms with on her own. therapy worked for me but did not work for my friend and i distanced myself from her because she was bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

two WEEKS?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

bro yes. nobody knows but me and my other friend. not even her mom. she wanted to surprise us with the info but when i tell you the chat was awkwardly silent 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I know, it’s really hard though, we graduate college in like a month, after this I’m moving back across the country, there just isn’t time for her to grow and understand enough to manage it

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