If something’s bothering you about the relationship before the engagement, it’s not gonna go away after the wedding. Deal with that first

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If someone’s demanding to take over wedding planning because they’re contributing money for it, their money’s not worth it

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You don’t have to have alcohol at your wedding, but do have more than water (yes this happened)

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Invite people who make you happy, not just because “they’re family”

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Put passwords on all your vendors

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If you think someone will pull a stunt at the event, don’t invite them

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Always have security at the wedding, even if it’s just a male guest that you have an agreement with to get him involved if things go south

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Make sure you have all the money necessary to pay for everything before the wedding. Don’t rely on wedding gifts to bail you out

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Child free means child free no exceptions

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“There’s no bride” is not an excuse to wear a white dress

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Don’t propose in the middle of someone else’s wedding, it’s just tacky. Same goes for pregnancy announcements

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