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Just experienced my first friend breakup Had a guy friend of over 5 years who randomly stopped talking to me in March, I’ve been messaging him here and there to ask if he’s okay He just told me it’s because I’m in a relationship and he has feelings for-
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Anonymous 17w

Naw he was never a friend. He was playing the nice guy to get into your pants. Right now what he’s hoping to do is manipulate your feelings of friendship towards him and make you feel guilty about your interactions. Don’t ever trust those type of guys, there the ones who try and do stuff when your drunk n vulnerable because they feel like they have a right to your body because they put so much “effort” in being your pal.

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Anonymous 17w

me, would want something more and feels teased. I told him that I respect his decision and appreciate him but like cmon. I dated a boy for 2 years before my current partner (whom I’ve been dating for over a year so it’s not even recent) and we still chatted. I don’t know what to do because he was one of my best friends but I also appreciate the sentiment. Ghosting me is crazy work tho, especially after 5 fuckin years.

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Anonymous 17w

Wow that’s shitty, I’m really sorry that happened. He was the one putting expectations on you and assuming things and is now acting childish because he realized you don’t like him like that.

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