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Girl Talk 20h
What is up with SOME mothers hating their own daughters?
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Anonymous 20h

From my understanding it’s a classic symptom in narcissistic mothers to view their daughters as competition

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Anonymous 20h

a lot of women as they age get resentful of younger women in general and all they accomplish that they could not. my mom started hating me as soon as i was 11

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Anonymous 19h

Not every home is like this, but many married women fall into a habit of being pretty bitter towards their husbands and men in general, then they see they see men don’t hold the same resentment towards their daughter because she’s… ya know… a kid… or a teenager or young lady, etc. So it’s sort of like #2 is saying, they become resentful of younger women including their own daughters because they are outside of the bitter habit loop they were tricked into.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Oh and #1 seems 🎯pretty close to the bullseye as well. Didn’t see your comment there. 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

omg i forgot about this as well, happened to me too, then they both eventually hated me😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

No lie, if you wanna hit the reset switch on your mom or really anyone who’s like this, ask them what they remember about meeting your dad and why they liked him. Just “There was some reason you picked dad, like obviously he had positive qualities when you met him.” It sort of jogs her memory that he’s not just the guy she might not want to admit resents right now.

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