Anonymous #1 12w

Imagine how awful you might feel knowing you could’ve done something and didn’t. It’s not your responsibility or your fault if you don’t say anything or if she chooses not to listen, but I think it’s important to look out for your friends

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Anonymous #1 12w

I’ve kind of tried to mention it briefly /casually but she just says “you’ve never had a bf, you don’t understand “ like maybe I genuinely don’t get it, but I feel like I would never put a boy over my education, but I guess different different people have different priorities

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ohhh, gotcha. I’ve always hated that line of reasoning, but it’s hard to get people to get out of that mindset 😭 Literally I think most of the best romantic advice I’ve heard is from people who have never dated, though 💀

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Anonymous #1 12w

I just feel bad for her. Because as her friend, I want to see her succeed. they also haven’t been dating that long, and not to be like that, but I don’t really think it’s gonna last, it’s a really toxic relationship and to see her putting her future on the line for it is kind of appalling.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Is this her first relationship? It really sucks that this is happening, but I feel like a lot of people get blinded in their first relationship

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Anonymous #1 12w

It’s like her third or fourth

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Anonymous OP 12w

I’ve also told her that I think it’s toxic and explained kind of how I think it looks bad from an outside perspective but then again I’m the one who’s never had a boyfriend so I obviously don’t know what I’m talking about. But if a man ever treated me the way he treats her would’ve been gone along time ago, but as long as she’s happy, I guess

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Anonymous OP 12w

Really? Yeesh… hoping for the best for her, but that’s a really awful position to be in—both you and her. I hope she’s able to pick herself up

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