Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Is it weird to have a friend send a whole paragraph attacking your character and then you cut her off bc it was so weird and your mutual stays friends with them?

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Is it weird to have a friend send a whole paragraph attacking your character and then you cut her off bc it was so weird and your mutual stays friends with them?

Anonymous 5w

Idk you personally, so don’t take my comment personally. I’m ONLY ASSUMING your friends message about your character was built up over time. If you then proceeded to cut her off then I’d say the friendship is pretty much over with, AND your mutual friend chose to stay with her because maybe she felt the same way as your friend… Again, I’m not sure what the context is, but sometimes these situations require self reflection and change🤷‍♀️

Anonymous 5w

To be honest this is a situation that requires honest communication, patience, etc. If she’s communicating all that with you that means she CARES. It’s not always from a place of hostility.

Anonymous 5w

I’m also seeing weirdness with the mutual inviting me out for a booked event and I declined so she asked the friend I cut off instead which is a common theme when our plans fall through. I’m starting to feel like they talk about me. Idk maybe I need more friends to have some other people to hang out with

Anonymous 5w

wdum attacking ur character? like did they confront you about something or?

Anonymous 5w

I meant attacking character like for example she had said I put everyone else above our friendship and the reasoning she gave was me missing her graduation dinner months prior to the message but I had to work the night the friend group had planned it

Anonymous

OP 5w

Also when I sent the mutual the paragraph that the other friend had texted me and asked if she’d known about all the animosity, the mutual ignored the conflict altogether

Anonymous

#3 5w

Immediately cutting her off shows some defensiveness and lack of self reflection I feel like.

Anonymous

OP 5w

Okay, this was immature of you- why get other people involved in your shit between you and your friend?

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Anonymous

#2 5w

See I understood this and in the message I sent back after I had tried to call her a couple times was like why didn’t you say this a long time ago and yadda and I had assumed our mutual would have aired her grievances the same time I asked her what the message was about. Thanks for your response and none taken personally

Anonymous

#3 5w

I had asked her bc we were all in the same group chat and in the messages she sent me, she had mentioned our mutual with implied to me some form of communication between them