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my boyfriend keeps sending me mixed signals on the status of our sex life and it’s stressing me out bc I’m insecure
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Anonymous 7w

how so?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

he’s always horny and turned on just from being around me but when we actually have sex he usually has trouble finishing inside

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

he came from fucking me from behind a few times ago but I had to jack him off the last time I rode him and this morning when I gave him a bj he didn’t reciprocate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

oh um does he jerk it weirdly? he might either need porn or has a death grip

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

have you directly talked to him about this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I didn’t care at the time that he didn’t reciprocate cause I knew he needed to get home and I know he finds me really attractive I’m just insecure and it bothers me that he came usually only come from behind cause of how it feels

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

lemme tell you. do kegels and ab circuits because my man can’t last longer than like 5 min after i started working on my pelvic floor muscles

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

obviously consult a doctor or whatever to make sure you don’t get a hypertonic pelvic floor tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i just worry it’s because of my face or my stomach or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i mean is he just an ass man?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I told him I was worried that he didn’t find out sex life satisfying and he said he does and that’s why he’s hard all the time around me it just feels different when he fucks me from behind vs when I ride him, and that it’s hard to cum while making eye contact because he feels pressured to cum faster

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Honestly it just sounds like he has performance anxiety

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

yeah i second #1, him not being able to cum has nothing to do with you, it would probably be the same with anyone else. it’s his problem due to a number of personal factors but it doesn’t mean he’s not sexually attracted to you

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