This may be fucked up to say, but I hate when men spend money on me, only when they’re also spending money on themselves.
Like if I tell a guy I’m kinda seeing I’m hungry, and then instead of him just doordashing something to me, he tries take me out.
I’m gonna be honest yeah it’s wild to want that from a guy you’re “kinda seeing” 😭
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Anonymous5d
I hate when men spend money on me in general ..but it sounds like he just wants to spend time with you😭
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Anonymous#15d
I get it, and I want to spend time with them at times, but sometimes I want a man that’ll know I just wanna be by myself and still wanna make sure I have food
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AnonymousOP5d
That’s understandable. Sometimes you just gotta tell them. I feel like once you start to do that, he’ll be able to pick up on that need better
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Anonymous#25d
Wym?
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AnonymousOP5d
I dont think it’s really reasonable to expect or want money to be spent on you in that manner with someone you’re not even officially dating.
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Anonymous#25d
We’re dating but it’s just not a relationship rn. T think I’m not expecting too much
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AnonymousOP5d
Well good luck with that I guess. If you can find a guy willing to do that then damn good job