Most of the time yall don’t read the feed, don’t read what happening, say “im too employed for this.” Then make assumptions off of situations yall don’t even care to pay attention to and pain this group as “bullies” bc we return energy to ppl coming in here being bullies in the first place
I think my issue is bc I had a scenario where people assumed random shit then started making multiple posts attacking me and sending people to my post. If it happens to me I’m sure it’s happened to others. I know a lot of people are assholes here and bigots and that’s where I understand, but I know if it’s happened to me it’s definitely happened to some others over some really stupid shit.
Agreed. I think once we can take people’s experiences into account we will be better as a community. It’s so rare for us women to get spaces like this and it hurts to see people tear others down for some moral superiority or whatever the case may be. I’ve had my fair share of random bs in here and it’s so weird how they act when you say your experience
I never read all the feed, cause I don’t have time for that and I simply don’t want to. But from what I’ve seen, it seems a lot of the times when people do make posts complaining about this community, they do get “dogpiled” and told to leave. Which I don’t think is fair, we should be able to criticize this community to help change it for the better. Also a lot of people will assume you are a certain person posting if you complain about this community. So everyone has been making assumptions