It really bothers me that they do this. I feel like they do this for every mens issue. Even on mens mental health days they get mad women arent doing all the awareness posting etc. Like what do you expect me to do about it? I can’t speak to YOUR issues? I’m not a man? You guys need to band together and take the lead on this one and figure it out for yourselves first. Im happy to support you (depending on the issue) But be honest with yourselves -that might mean taking some accountability.
I don’t think male loneliness is a scam, it’s a legit issue but they’re just blaming the wrong people/things. They’re using it to fuel sexism instead of fueling the fight against patriarchy, which harms them just as easily. The male suicide rates, the inability to confide in each other on a deeper level, the amount of male DV/SA victims that are unheard/ridiculed. Those are what we need to look at, those are the things that cause male loneliness, not women’s existences.
I think a lot of the loneliness is stemming from all the red pill and incel garbage they’ve been ingesting lately. Nobody wants to be around an angry bitter person who loathes in self-pity and hates others. There isn’t anything manly or attractive about that. I think they should start with prayer, pointing out the issues with modern masculinity (NOT pointing at women, point at themselves/their social circles/their support systems/their stigma/etc).
Then look for a way to combat those issues, the correct way to combat it should NOT INVOLVE WOMEN OR HARMING WOMEN. It should be focused on morals and not looking cool to other guys. Looking cool to other guys is what got y’all into this mess. But I’m not in your social circles I don’t see what you guys talk about when I’m (a woman) am not around. I don’t know exactly how you support/don’t support eachother or the insides/outs of uniquely masculine issues. You really need to pull your weight.
bruh you literally deleted every single comment you made where i gave you advice. you refuse to take it. that’s not accountability that’s cowardice. u think privilege is sex. all you care about is sex. cut the shit. women don’t owe you our bodies or our affection. become a better person and then maybe someone will want you. but no one wants a lazy man who refuses to even do the damn work to take care of himself.
it’s not endearing at all because they are once again relying on us to do the work for them, the same way they want us to have a job and raise the kids and cook the meals and clean the house and do their laundry. they want mommy, not a partner. men like this think it’s gay to talk to their friends any deeper than surface level. they built their own prison and then blame us for being the reason they’re in it
they think they’re oppressed for not getting laid since they’re short or ugly or whatever the fuck as if there aren’t women who also don’t fit the beauty standards except they get treated like shit and made fun of by everybody or treated like they’re invisible or less than human. the only “problem” an ugly man has is not having sex, but the thing is plenty of ugly dudes fuck because their personalities aren’t helpless and spiteful
Just look at how men operate though. You’ll never convince men as a whole not to think with sexual motives first. If you really want to fix this issue, you have to teach young boys to care about each other and not worry about what women are doing. The patriarchy won’t like that though. It’s also crazy how many women find ridiculing male victims / even false accusing men is totally ok because “men can’t be victims” At the end of the day this is a male problem though and men need to solve it…
I think it depends on who’s saying it. From the loudest voices, it is absolutely a scam. We forget that women will genuinely connect with a guy who is mature, has self control and doesnt jump into sex on day one. Guys who are genuinely lonely aren’t shouting “male loneliness,” they are walking up to girls and other guys respectfully and having good conversations…