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Hear me out: Male loneliness is a semi scam. If men are lonely they need to learn how to form real friendships and root for their fellow man. Not blame women and then when we are nice to them, it quickly becomes a sexual encounter…
286 upvotes, 42 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Hear me out:

Male loneliness is a semi scam. If men are lonely they need to learn how to form real friendships and root for their fellow man.

Not blame women and then when we are nice to them, it quickly becomes a sexual encounter…"
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Anonymous 6w

the male loneliness epidemic matters so much to men... but not enough for them to treat women right.

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Anonymous 6w

they have a crazy victim mindset

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Anonymous 6w

ALSO it’s not just the “make loneliness epidemic,” we have a loneliness crisis in our country post COVID, but for some reason it only matters when the men are lonely.

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Anonymous 6w

It really bothers me that they do this. I feel like they do this for every mens issue. Even on mens mental health days they get mad women arent doing all the awareness posting etc. Like what do you expect me to do about it? I can’t speak to YOUR issues? I’m not a man? You guys need to band together and take the lead on this one and figure it out for yourselves first. Im happy to support you (depending on the issue) But be honest with yourselves -that might mean taking some accountability.

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Anonymous 6w

I don’t think male loneliness is a scam, it’s a legit issue but they’re just blaming the wrong people/things. They’re using it to fuel sexism instead of fueling the fight against patriarchy, which harms them just as easily. The male suicide rates, the inability to confide in each other on a deeper level, the amount of male DV/SA victims that are unheard/ridiculed. Those are what we need to look at, those are the things that cause male loneliness, not women’s existences.

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Anonymous 6w

but it's "pick better men" whenever we complain 😂

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Anonymous 6w

I don’t think it’s a scam. I think some are lonely and use it as excuse for their behavior, some men genuinely weren’t taught how to reach out when they need help. I think mental health awareness should be for everyone, because even children can have mental health issues as well.

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Anonymous 6w

I didn’t read all of this but I feel like they’ve gotten so lazy. Like get your ass up, stop sending strangers dick pics, talk to a woman, get her flowers, etc.

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Anonymous 6w

and guess what the main cause of the male loneliness epidemic 📢 MISOGYNY misogyny does not harm just women it harms everyone

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Anonymous 6w

“I know I said we’re friends but you’re not reciprocating my feelings for you so I think I need to ghost you because I just can’t stand interacting with you when you are no longer of any use to me”

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Anonymous 6w

What if all the men suddenly unalived themselves? Wouldn’t that be amazing?

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Anonymous 6w

have you ever considered that perhaps the guys who are opening doors are just ugly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

I think a lot of the loneliness is stemming from all the red pill and incel garbage they’ve been ingesting lately. Nobody wants to be around an angry bitter person who loathes in self-pity and hates others. There isn’t anything manly or attractive about that. I think they should start with prayer, pointing out the issues with modern masculinity (NOT pointing at women, point at themselves/their social circles/their support systems/their stigma/etc).

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

Then look for a way to combat those issues, the correct way to combat it should NOT INVOLVE WOMEN OR HARMING WOMEN. It should be focused on morals and not looking cool to other guys. Looking cool to other guys is what got y’all into this mess. But I’m not in your social circles I don’t see what you guys talk about when I’m (a woman) am not around. I don’t know exactly how you support/don’t support eachother or the insides/outs of uniquely masculine issues. You really need to pull your weight.

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Anonymous 6w

bruh you literally deleted every single comment you made where i gave you advice. you refuse to take it. that’s not accountability that’s cowardice. u think privilege is sex. all you care about is sex. cut the shit. women don’t owe you our bodies or our affection. become a better person and then maybe someone will want you. but no one wants a lazy man who refuses to even do the damn work to take care of himself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

and the thing is i wouldn’t even be so harsh but you just have to bring women into it and cry that you don’t get fucked. the problem isn’t that your not getting fucked it’s that you don’t want to talk to your friends. that is YOUR problem. that is NOT our fault

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

In a way it’s endearing they want to include us in resolving their issues, but I don’t feel qualified to lead that. If you lead I’ll support you (if I think it’s morally sound) but like y’all gotta do the leading.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

it’s not endearing at all because they are once again relying on us to do the work for them, the same way they want us to have a job and raise the kids and cook the meals and clean the house and do their laundry. they want mommy, not a partner. men like this think it’s gay to talk to their friends any deeper than surface level. they built their own prison and then blame us for being the reason they’re in it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

they think they’re oppressed for not getting laid since they’re short or ugly or whatever the fuck as if there aren’t women who also don’t fit the beauty standards except they get treated like shit and made fun of by everybody or treated like they’re invisible or less than human. the only “problem” an ugly man has is not having sex, but the thing is plenty of ugly dudes fuck because their personalities aren’t helpless and spiteful

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

so many men are just now realizing they're not the better men 🙊

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

Just look at how men operate though. You’ll never convince men as a whole not to think with sexual motives first. If you really want to fix this issue, you have to teach young boys to care about each other and not worry about what women are doing. The patriarchy won’t like that though. It’s also crazy how many women find ridiculing male victims / even false accusing men is totally ok because “men can’t be victims” At the end of the day this is a male problem though and men need to solve it…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Crying “mommy please help me” in order to use a woman’s feelings for sexual gain both hurts other men and women as well but sadly that’s what many men are using “male loneliness” as. This post calls out that behavior which id say targets a majority of frustrated males.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No I understand your point, I’m just saying I don’t think it’s a fake thing. As I said, they’re blaming the wrong things which is what you’re saying too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

I think it depends on who’s saying it. From the loudest voices, it is absolutely a scam. We forget that women will genuinely connect with a guy who is mature, has self control and doesnt jump into sex on day one. Guys who are genuinely lonely aren’t shouting “male loneliness,” they are walking up to girls and other guys respectfully and having good conversations…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

that gif gives ur gender away so quick i hope u know. sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Your bad grammar gives your gender away, male coded

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

sir this is yikyak

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’m not a sir, mister

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

then why are you hating like a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

You thinking this was meant as hate tells me everything I need to know about your gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

i’m literally a woman and you can read every other comment i’ve made on this post if you’re still curious about that. but how is you saying men should k*ll themselves … not hateful😭 your post deadass sounded like a spiteful man trying to bait us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

It’s called a JOKE omg. You triggered much, man? Maybe you need to go back to For the Boys

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

it was a bad joke that sounded like something a bitter incel would say based on all the other bitter incels that have already been on this post and deleted their comments. but ok so ur a woman. why are u so pressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

“I’m literally a woman” is the most man sounding thing- gtfo out of here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

and btw that gif is literally just a bunch of racist stereotypes so you can see why i’d be hesitant here

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

are you serious… read every other comment i’ve made on this post and tell me if you still think i’m a man😭😭 get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Do you not know the Simpsons? Omg you’re so triggered!

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

yeah the simpsons that make racist jokes frequently….

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

Then that’s not “male loneliness epidemic” that’s “lack of therapy epidemic”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Baby I’m not the one who posted the male loneliness epidemic lol. I’m just saying it’s not a scam haha.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

lol i love when ppl don't get that they don't make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 6w

I don’t hate women but none of them like me.

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