Girl Talk on Yik Yak | How do yall get over a situationship when you’ve been at it for four months and they told you it’s “hard not to fall in love” with you?

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How do yall get over a situationship when you’ve been at it for four months and they told you it’s “hard not to fall in love” with you?

Anonymous 12w

hit the block button and focus on urself

Anonymous 12w

Hard truth maybe: Say it was lust, because it most likely is, and you’re a boost to their ego. It’s a blessing because that doesn’t sound like a good foundation if they’re not actively showing you they like you instead of telling you. Orr It takes them longer to form stronger emotions towards you which isn’t a bad thing at all.

Anonymous

#1 12w

Sorry I don’t think I was clear: if it matters, he ended it yesterday

Anonymous

OP 12w

I dont quite understand this. But sorry to hear that he ended things like that. I wouldn’t keep a situation ship around , even if you really liked him, like this one because it seems detrimental to you. I think one of you guys liked someone more than the other, and that’s a tiring dynamic to be in. Go find you a good one because there’s plenty and they’re easy to come across if you wait and become content with yourself because they eat that up

Anonymous

#1 12w

Okay wait so let me explain: he told me months ago that it was hard not to love me. He ghosted me for weeks whenever I asked to hang out starting about a month ago, and yesterday he ended things. Sorry again. And I know I should just move on but I just want to know how to stop missing him. I feel unlovable

Anonymous

OP 12w

u r not unlovable. he's an asshole who love bombed u, ignored u, then only came back when he was wanting something. tht man used u and is not someone who will probably ever love someone. none of how he treated u is ur fault or a reflection of who u r, its all a reflection of how emotionally unavailable he is. someone out there will absolutely love u, and you will always have urself to love. go find some new hobbies to try and rly invest in urself

Anonymous

OP 12w

Well I could understand why you would because you’re placing your worth in the hands of someone else which is totally inaccurate in every way shape or form because you’re basing your worth over an opinion that’s subjective, love. I love you and I think you’re intelligent and self aware of yourself and your actions and I want you to know that life isn’t that serious and it’s just a temporary rough spot. You seem like a vibe and I know others see that too. You’re just not surrounding yourself with

Anonymous

#1 12w

People who do see that and that could be detriment to your perception of your own baddie-ness.