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This may be a hot take, but there’s not anything wrong with being shallow. Like why the fuck would I date someone who’s face I don’t wanna see?
Why are there some men on dating apps that put nothing but a dark screen as their pics and put “testing to see who’s shallow” 😭 like homie I’m not rejecting you bc I’m shallow, I need to know what you look like in case you’re a fucking murderer
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Anonymous 6w

i’m not really even sure it’s shallow to want to be attracted to someone you’re gonna be with, i kinda just thought that was a normal thing to want in a relationship. caring only about looks and nothing else, sure, but the blank pfp is either pure insecurity or bro is not single

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Anonymous 6w

I honestly think people throw around shallow all the time when they are jealous and to shame others for being attracted to their partners features. I also think men use the term way more than women do bc men usually don’t do as much maintenance as women. On another note I think a lot of people are looks first then personality when it comes to dating

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Anonymous 6w

So real. And trust, I’ve tried dating guys I’m not attracted to bc they seem nice and I feel bad… it doesn’t work. You literally need attraction for a relationship to work. It finally clicked to me one day like wait I don’t have to actually force myself to try and like guys that I’m clearly not attracted to!! It feels like torture 😭

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