
I honestly think people throw around shallow all the time when they are jealous and to shame others for being attracted to their partners features. I also think men use the term way more than women do bc men usually don’t do as much maintenance as women. On another note I think a lot of people are looks first then personality when it comes to dating
So real. And trust, I’ve tried dating guys I’m not attracted to bc they seem nice and I feel bad… it doesn’t work. You literally need attraction for a relationship to work. It finally clicked to me one day like wait I don’t have to actually force myself to try and like guys that I’m clearly not attracted to!! It feels like torture 😭