Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Bf admitted after years of saying it wasn’t a big deal and ignoring me talking to him about it that he actually was checking out girls on insta but didn’t think it was a big deal cuz he would never talk to them. Do I dump him or no we’ve been dating 4 yr

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Bf admitted after years of saying it wasn’t a big deal and ignoring me talking to him about it that he actually was checking out girls on insta but didn’t think it was a big deal cuz he would never talk to them. Do I dump him or no we’ve been dating 4 yr

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Dump him

Nah that could be worked through

34 votes

Anonymous 9w

I’d start doing the same shit as him so he knew how it felt. If he could handle you doing the same things, then id determine if this is behavior and emotions you’d want from your spouse and whether to stay based off that. If he can’t handle it then…yk what to do

Anonymous 9w

He would get angry when I brought it up for years and say my concerns were childish and didn’t seem to change his behavior of liking pics and didn’t seem to unfollow people or take any action but I guess it’s because he thought my concerns were childish

Anonymous 9w

At one point he did delete insta and still doesn’t have it but that was after literally 2 years of me pestering him

Anonymous 9w

If his morals don’t align with yours, no matter how long you’ve been together, I’d say to leave. He is seeking out other women, whether he’s talking to them or not, he is/was actively checking out other women despite having a gf

Anonymous

OP 9w

knowing hed seek out those girls despite lying to your face... how would you happily sleep next to him at night going forward like I get it you've been together for half a decade, your lives, your families are so intertwined but...dont do that to yourself

Anonymous

#1 9w

He told me he didn’t seek them out but that yeah part of it was him checking them out

Anonymous

#3 9w

He told me he only checked out girls at the beginning of our relationship when he thought we weren’t serious. So idk

Anonymous

#2 9w

He told me it upset him so much that I was obsessed with his social media because he never once looked at who I followed and didn’t care at all if I checked out guys cuz he doesn’t care about that stuff