this is old beef but whenever people complain about usernames & then complain about parasocial / idolizing between anons & usernames, it annoys me to no end. i do not think of myself as better or superior than anyone else just because i have an username. i am simply a college girl like everyone else with a silly username i created in 20 seconds. you can say you miss my posts!! or miss seeing me/interacting. but when you start acting like i’m superior or getting creepy, then it’s weird
it isn’t. people on here can be mean as hell unprovoked. it’s one thing if you do something that validates the reactions other people have and it’s another to be bullied for no reason. the mean girl mindset runs deep and it’s sad honestly. especially because they will likely be that way until they die.
i quit posting with my user on for many reasons pertaining to this. it’s not because i’m scared of them or whatever it’s because mentally it fucks you up. people say not to care bc this is an anonymous app, but cyber bullying is very much real. so yes it is that deep for some people. rant over lol.
As someone who blocked a few of the most outspoken people, it gets to a point where the app is dead because so much of it revolves around them or their drama and it’s between feeling left out and nosy or being upset. There’s an idol mentality in here it feels like that used to not be present.
yes. why i’m hated on is completely unknown to me. i’ve had my moments on here sure but most of it is one sided beef. half of the people that have an issue with me can’t even tell me why and if they want to that’s up to them. i’ll own up to my shit sure, but as of right now in this moment i can’t tell you what people’s issues are. if you’re upset with me and you won’t tell me why that’s your problem at that point. respectfully.
Lollll this happened to me recently and I’m honestly over it. The swarming is insane and it’s not even over the usual prejudice shit it’s people just trying to get you into weird “gotcha” moments and assuming things over a simple post. I prolly will delete the app soon bc it’s not worth it.
and a LOT of the animosity i think comes from people being jealous over god knows what. they think the username people are “cliquey” because god forbid we have friends on here. so in turn they get pissy and mad and find us “annoying” when in reality we really aren’t. again it’s one sided beef.
Or you block them and they continue to make posts like dude… it’s seriously giving creepy. People have too much time. One time (not here but showing how weird ppl are) on fb I posted a cute little joke about my family in a group and someone literally went through my profile and messaged my mother… I confronted them and they eventually admitted ig my post triggered them or something but yeah. People are getting too comfortable.
i genuinely think a lot of people in here just can't get through their mind that we're all different people who genuinely don't know shit about eachother, like i feel like because some pol spend so much time in here they forget this is an anon app at the end of the day and get upset when ppl either stand out or can't read their mind
It gets to a damn point like they’re creating a parasocial type relationship to like you for example or whomever that they seem to clearly have animosity towards and it’s just soooo odd I can’t. I hope people reading this understand their impacts of dog piling and assuming random things about people on the internet. It’s so so so damaging.
or i’ve had people judge me bc my karma is insanely high in here and then they accuse me of being chronically online when in reality ive just been in the community for a very long time it’s not like i intended for that to happen on purpose 😭 i have a life outside of this god forsaken app lol
so percy came from texas to my state - from texas, he was in a neglect case and had a number name, then shelter in texas named him quaker, then my local shelter named him mudslide, THEN one failed adoption later he was named PENCY💀 and poor guy went through so many name changes, i wanted something like apollo but settled on Percy because Percy Jackson & it was an easy switch