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i'm realizing that i don't have a close best friend and that's making me very sad
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Anonymous 17w

Why do friendships as adults feel so lackluster? Like where is the community we were promised

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Anonymous 17w

same girl it’s hard making friends in college

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Anonymous 17w

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

oh my god YES

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

no literally like i feel exiled or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

And even with the existing friendships some of have they’re either not good friends or you just kinda friends bc of shared history. I’ve started letting ppl go bc of this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

no yea the only friends i have either don't value our friendship or we've just faded apart but it's like i can't let them go or ill literally have zero friends and that sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Completely relate. I’ve just tried to remind myself that it’s better to be alone and seek out better connections than stay with ppl who make you feel unseen it’s just hard to do when you literally have no one else in your corner

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