Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Relationship OCD is actually the bane of my existence. Like me and my BF made it official like… 3 weeks ago and I’m already terrified he hates me and is losing interest and it’s all I can think about and I feel so guilty for even thinking that.

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Girl Talk 7w

Relationship OCD is actually the bane of my existence. Like me and my BF made it official like… 3 weeks ago and I’m already terrified he hates me and is losing interest and it’s all I can think about and I feel so guilty for even thinking that.

Anonymous 7w

I feel like I’m discrediting him. Like when we hangout and call it’s great, I feel so cared for. But as soon as I’m not actually talking to him I tweak. And I’m not gonna tell him this obviously cause IK it’s my OCD and it’s something I wanna handle outside of our relationship cause I don’t think it’d be healthy to bring up, but omfg. It sucks. And it sucks knowing I’m irrational and I’m still so focused on it. Like I spend HOURS rehashing conversations and rereading text messages

Anonymous 7w

I have paranoid anxiety, and the best advice i can give you to help you with your relationship anxiety is to just constantly remind yourself to trust him, and that if he didn’t like you it would be obvious. And just keep reminding yourself of that every time you have doubts. Kinda like a manifestation routine, if you just keep saying it, you’ll believe it

Anonymous

OP 7w

It’s so exhausting. And I’m so scared I’m not ready for a relationship, but I could really see myself loving this man. I just don’t wanna be too much for him. Anywyas. That’s my Ted talk. I needed a place to

Anonymous

#1 7w

Thanks diva, this sounds helpful. I really appreciate it!

Anonymous

OP 7w

You’re welcome!! I have horrible relationship anxiety and i tend to be super clingy due to it, so i always try to hold back and remind myself that he loves me and that i trust him. I wish you luck girlie and i hope everything turns out amazing 🩷🩷