
hey girly, i used to be the same way! youre not alone in feeling this way. i had make a 2026 goal for myself to not have sex without having genuine feelings for a guy and i cut off every guy who tried to w/o getting to know me. its so hard but ive been trying my best! i hope you find something that helps you. stay busy, find hobbies etc -23 year old girl
i was too! i used to pride myself during my teen years that i didnt like hookup culture and then i hooked up for the first time and just continued it. at first it was empowerment (and it can be for others!) but i started just going crazy and felt like shit about it when i couldnt remember names and had to admit it to my friends. i had sexual trauma prior to this happening and i really do think that played a role for me. sometimes it just happens though, and its okay. just start little by little!