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yall is it weird that my bf keeps telling me how much he loved my hair straight and he’s never complimented me sm 💀 i am mixed with hella curly hair and i straighten it maybe once a year and he keeps telling me how much he loved it
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Anonymous 16w

I mean he may just like it babes. If he never compliments your curly hair it’s kind of weird, but it just seems like it’s different and he enjoys it

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Anonymous 16w

Girl :(

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Anonymous 16w

As a curly girl this is a red flag for me

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Anonymous 16w

yeah tbh

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Anonymous 16w

he's racist I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

ask him who he voted for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

maybe try switching it up and doing different hairstyles with your curly hair and if he still doesn’t compliment it, you know what you’re dealing with

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

he black 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

trust i watched him fill out his ballot

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

Either way if it makes you uncomfortable or something, talk to him about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

😔 he does sometimes but it was just like every damn minute when it was straight and it was months ago and he still talks about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

kms

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

it’s not even that it makes me uncomfortable but i’m just likeeee 🤨🤨🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yeah I would just talk to him about it. Makes sure he understands that you want to hear validation from him about your natural hair It may seem obvious to us but the communication can’t hurt

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

no atp we’ve had so many other issues that this one is just a funny little gag like why tf u don’t like my hair that i have every damn day???? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

a guy rly likes a hairstyle and suddenly he’s racist, yall really are special

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

oh here yall go again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

bro he’s literally black, sometimes people are weird and do things that are bad but bad things aren’t always racist things. yall just love calling shit you don’t like racist and that takes away from shit that’s actually bad but not race related

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

obviously the commenter didn’t know before OP said something, so ofc someone might be suspicious of a man constantly complimenting straight hair, which is typically with non black people, but not curly hair. yall love to say “people wanna call everything racist” without acknowledging that a lot of things are related to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I'd bet so so so much money you're way too pretty for him babes

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