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I’m in my passive aggressive matching energy stage of my situationship. Someone warn him that he’s about to be cut if he doesn’t get it together
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Anonymous 13h

Why not communicate openly about your concerns?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Because I don’t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Why? That makes it worse for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Because I don’t want to be the one to teach a man how to behave…. Idk I think it’s common sense to not ignore someone you claim you’re serious about? Not even a “hi I don’t feel like talking right now” just silence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

And the only person it’s gonna be worse for is him because I’m not trying as hard anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Its not just ab teaching him but advocating for yourself. It does hurt you to not advocate for your needs, being passive aggressive just makes you resentful and doesnt solve anything, if youre unhappy and feel like he should be doing smth he isnt and that its not on you to make him do anything then u should leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

But he’s also not gonna respond if I advocate for myself so there’s no point. Also I’m advocating for myself by doing unto others what’s been done to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Then why are u still involved with this guy if it sucks and you feel unheard and see no point in acting any way besides negatively

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

We have the same schedule so I can’t cut him off yet. Also I like him when he is around

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Anonymous 13h

You just have to give men your contact when they ask for it. If you’re into them it’ll be

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Anonymous 12h

Go ask them tf

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