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my boyfriend of 2 years just said he wants to go on a break. i asked him why he can say he wants to marry me one day and the next he wants a break? and he said that a part of him still wants to marry me. but idk what to do. i don’t want to lose him.
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Anonymous 16h

You deserve to be with someone who’s 100% confident in your relationship. This feels like it’s bordering on emotional abuse if he’s constantly back and forth on it

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Anonymous 15h

since nobody else is saying it, he probably wants to fuck someone else/explore a new partner without feeling bad about cheating

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Anonymous 15h

going on a break while seemingly being in a happy and good relationship makes zero sense no matter how he words it. relationships don't just have pause buttons to use for fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Yep :/ I’ve been through it before

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