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How should i approach doing it for the first time? I have a boyfriend who is waiting on me to be ready and i’m nervyyyy
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Anonymous 3d

Rule on determining if you are ready: if you aren’t comfortable saying no then you can’t say yes. So if you feel like you wouldn’t stop him mid sex to say “that hurts” or “stop” or be assertive, then you aren’t ready to take that next step!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3d

But ultimately for a first time each person prefers to do it differently. Personally, I’m a planner and so I would plan out my outfit and talk to him about what exactly are the limits (like strictly vanilla and one position etc etc) but other people get stressed out by that and feel better just doing it instinctively

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3d

Ultimately it’s best to start with slow escalations like kissing then top off and more kissing etc etc until the only next escalation is sex and then go for it. That way it’s more like slowly warming up the water rather than just jumping into the hot tub lol

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