
See, I also believe this. But then again, young boys are also victims of SA and r@pe. And politicians do everything in their power to silence them, just as they do female victims. If it harms men as a byproduct, I don’t think they care. As long as they can oppress women and girls, they will. I mean, banning abortion means more men will have to pay child support. But if it means oppressing women, hell yeah, they’ll ban abortion.
When u consent to having sex im not consenting to spending 18 years raising a kid that i dont want and will likely hate. Im also not consenting to ruin my body to give birth to said child. My abortion was one of the worst things to happen to me, but having a fucking kid at 15 would have been worse.
every time you have sex there’s a chance you get pregnant, whether you have protection or not. also yall don’t understand that there are women who aren’t able to get pregnant. and then they listen to you say you got an abortion. imagine how that person would feel about you saying you had the opportunity to have a baby and you threw it away because you didn’t want to go through with it. imagine the lives those aborted babies could have lived. you could have been aborted, but your mom chose not to
i’m sorry you went through that, and you’re not alone. there are millions of people who have gone through the same thing with their rapist not being charged, and obviously they should have been. i’m saying that if you have been raped, OR the mother and/or baby are in a life or death situation, an abortion is okay. if there’s no reason besides “i dont want a baby”, that’s just wrong. theres always adoption, there’s always another option rather than taking away a life before it even begins.
Nope. I will always support a woman not wanting to have something that can ruin their body, their mind, and also fucking kill them. You don’t support rape survivors, you don’t fucking care about other women. You are cruel for wanting to force women into severe trauma because of your fucking shitty ass religious beliefs. Your god is the closest thing to Satan I can imagine.
i really hope you find God one day and realize how wrong you are. obviously, not one person deserves rape. no one does. all rapists should be charged. rape survivors deserve more awareness, because i personally don’t see many people talk about it. and i can only imagine how difficult it is to carry that weight.
your rape was not a punishment, but an obstacle. people go through the darkest situations before finding God. i would highly encourage to start getting closer to Him, and maybe you’ll start to feel peace eventually. what happened to you doesn’t need to be a dark cloud being held over your head forever. you could be the person to bring other rape survivors together and bring awareness to the community through God. He heals only if you allow Him to help you.
Do you know what my pastor told me when I told him what happened to me? He called me a jezebel and said it was my fault. I don’t want to be anyone’s inspiration story, I don’t want to bring awareness to shit, and I hope if there is a god he knows I would willingly send myself to hell because of him.
SA is never okay. ever. and i genuinely feel bad for anyone who has been put in that situation. no one deserves it. when it comes to the alcohol and drugs thing, everyone’s brain chemistry is different, so they react differently. someone under the influence could accidentally give consent to someone and not know it, that’s a rare case but its still possible
Your viewpoint was still disgustingly worded. Y’all really need to stop bringing rape babies into this debate, because we are humans with feelings. You can be pro choice without telling people they don’t matter because of how they were created. The reason for abortion doesn’t matter, just don’t villainize the baby
if it’s been said once, it’s been said a thousand times: NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SUFFER THE TRAUMA OF BIRTH OVER A CLUMP OF CELLS THEY DIDNT ASK FOR!!! Forcing someone to birth a rape baby dredges up so much trauma and they will have to deal with how their body has been irreversibly changed for the rest of their life. Every time they look in the mirror, they’ll see it and they’ll think of their rapist. Every single time.
One could say I got lucky that it was my older sister and not my older brother that decided to make me their plaything when I was so little. Because at least I don’t have any physical reminders to look at when I think about it. But even certain smells or feelings make me panic. I cannot imagine the horror that would be looking in the mirror and seeing stretch marks from a baby that they helped make.
No one deserves that pain and fear, especially not from your own family, from someone that’s supposed to love you in a wholly different way, it wasn’t your fault and you didn’t deserve it. I know what it feels like and I know that it should’ve never happened and everyone else should’ve supported you and protected you from that monster.
If they were wholly intent on not believing him to be a monster, no amount of evidence would’ve proved it. They would have spun the tale in their own brains however they needed to. I don’t understand how you can be so heartless as to ignore the trauma that would’ve come with the birth. You have to realize that a full person’s health- mental and physical- is more important than a bundle of cells that doesn’t even have a thought of life yet right?
If the mother didn’t want the baby, it would go to the father if he wanted it, and if that monster had gotten his hands on it then he would’ve killed it. He would’ve killed it at a time when it was aware and alive and could feel pain. Was it not better to destroy those cells before they could feel that pain? If not for the mother’s sake because we know you don’t care about them, then for the baby’s sake.
Right, you’d just rather people be hooked up to machines and actively decaying so they can be incubators. Or have kids be SA’d every day until they die or off themselves. Or you’d rather they starve, be homeless and killed on the streets… you’d rather them actually be alive to feel suffering before they die. Got it.
They let a woman die because the treatment to save her would harm the fetus inside her. They refused to treat her and let her die and then they kept her on life support after she was gone so that they could use her as an incubator for a fetus that everyone knew would die when it was born. They robbed a family of a wife and mother. They let her die.