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Men are confusing. They expect sex on the first date. They want a one night stand or a fwb. But on the flip side say they hate an easy girl. Hate a girl with a body count. Don’t respect girls or wouldn’t commit to girls with a body count.
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Anonymous 3w

i’ve met lots of men that don’t care about body count, they’re out there. mostly older more mature guys who also have a past.

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Anonymous 3w

unfortunately this is almost always the case and it’s hard to not find someone a guy who will commit, let’s just say that the bar is in hell

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Anonymous 3w

They want you to deny every other man EXCEPT him. He wants to feel special and be the one. He wants to be different

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Anonymous 3w

Swear .. you can’t have love and respect from them at the same time 😐 I’d rather be respected and hated tbh

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Anonymous 3w

Some men don’t want both, religious guys tend to actually value chastity

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Anonymous 3w

talking to a guy right now, thought it was chill and when i ask to hang out he literally says “oh some time next week? my roommate has not left to room at all yet” TF DOES THAT MEAN? I don’t want to go to ur fucking dorm the first time we hang out.

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Anonymous 3w

This is honestly just your experience or rather it’s the type of men you date. I mean except for the high body count thing, I wouldn’t want a guy who’s been with a lot of people since that means he’s not great at staying in a relationship, so it’s definitely fair for them to expect the same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

always keep your standards high. even if it means staying single.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Men can’t sling their dick to every girl in town but expect the girl to be committed to them only. Can’t have it both ways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

OH I know. I’m just saying now they prob think. Which is why they always want the virgin

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

That’s fair, as long as you also are being chaste too

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 3w

yeah just sucks to be single sometimes 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I wouldn’t be with someone who has been with more than two or three in the the past, and I wouldn’t expect any less in return. And especially not anyone who’s don’t any of that “one night stand” nonsense. Those people are not relationship material.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i don’t doubt that. it’s still better than being with the wrong person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

just because you’ve had one night stands and a high body count doesn’t mean you’re bad at keeping relationships or not “relationship material”. it’s fine if it’s your personal preference to date someone that hasn’t had many partners but to objectively declare them not relationship material is just inaccurate and lowkey disrespectful. my bf and i have over 100 bodies between the two of us and are in a very healthy loving relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w
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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

This a good point ngl high body count is a red flag for either gender

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