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One of the most isolating parts of being a SA victim is how quickly people who say stuff like “believe all victims” will slam the door in ur face when they realize one of their friends/family is a predator :/
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Anonymous 4w

I told my best friend of 7 years about it the day after and she didn’t believe me bc she was also friends with him and said I made it up bc I “didn’t get enough hugs as a kid” like the switch up is insane

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Anonymous 4w

When I told my best friend she just said “he wouldn’t do that” but we didn’t even know the guy. he was literally just the dad of an acquaintance. We’re not friends anymore but I’m still upset. People will prefer to believe a stranger over you even

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Anonymous 4w

Literally why I’ve never told anyone who it was

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Anonymous 4w

i am so so close with my family but if i ever found out that any one of them did something like that i’d never talk to them again. literally told my brothers that if i ever caught them doing stupid shit like that i’d go off on them and cut them out bc no fucking way am i’m supporting that kind of behavior

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Anonymous 4w

I still haven’t come out about it to anyone besides my closest friend, bc I live in a small town, and we were both friends with everyone here

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i cannot imagine being that horrible to a friend wtf…i’m so sorry that happened to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Honestly Im in the same boat. I only came out to one of our mutuals. She was closer to him but she literally had a “empower survivors” banner on her social media so idk I expected better. Tell me why she removed the banner the blocked me 🙃

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then blocked me*

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