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I just find it so hard to NEED a man. Like I can feed myself, work a job, take care of myself in all areas of life. Even sexual. So like why do I need one? For kids? Even then I don’t want any…so like…their existence doesn’t do much for me
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Anonymous 5d

Free flowers, clothes, space heater, errand boy

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Anonymous 5d

no woman should EVER feel like they “need” a man unless it’s a specific man that they’re actually in love with. imo, relationships are pointless unless you’re in love.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

But that brings me no joy. It’s more of a joy when I do those things by myself for myself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Seems like you’re happy on your own then. You can keep doing that since it seems to suit you. If you feel like you want to share it then you can find a man but they’re more of an add-on joy then something that brings you joy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

A man made me happy and then he made me miserable. I’m aware that life happens. Regardless, a man could never amount to the joy I bring myself. A man is like a child or a pet, another living being you have to provide care and attention for. I’m selfish, I’ll admit, I can not see myself doing that for anyone but myself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Even then they’re pointless because they serve nothing but some sort of fulfillment to fill some emotional void that you could so easily fill yourself.

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