
i literally talked to her about it to when it was happening i was like “do you mind putting your phone away? we haven’t seen each other in a while so i wanna be able to talk without phones” and she goes “well it’s my bf texting me, he just wants me to be safe so i have to keep checking in with him why does that bother you” if you need to “check in” every 5 seconds your bf is controlling.