So working with kids made me really want one, but I’m currently on a over-night nannying trip and I don’t think I can have kids. They also cost a bunch and like you said I value my alone time sm (also my sleep lol). On top of that our world is going to shit and I don’t wanna bring a kid into that
I really wanted kids and o was so excited to be a mom and totally respect your not wanting kids they are a nightmare, but the current admin and the world being on fire and the uncertainty of Litterally everything made me rethink having kids. I just don’t think they’d be brought into a safe environment even if I had all the money to protect them. and ppl wonder why women don’t want kids. On top of general life disruptors and being expensive I’m just disheartened by where we are in this timeperiod
My mom calls me selfish but like so what if I am. I just want to be able to come home a relax how I want. I LOVE my alone time and peace and quiet I do not want kids at all. Also, my bestie is always like no I think you’ll get bored and change your mind but like no cus I could get a dog or a cat or two or pick up literally any hobby I want to try or travel or do literally anything I want and that’s the beauty of it