Anonymous #1 5w

even more proof that men truly don't read smh

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Anonymous #3 5w

girl abstinence means sex not alc 💀

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Anonymous #2 5w

exactly like as a human being that's a pretty core part of dating for most people

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Anonymous #3 5w

It’s about abstaining from sex outside of a relationship btw😭😭I very much do drink

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Anonymous #1 5w

then put no hookups, abstinence means you don't have it ever

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Anonymous OP 5w

LMAO idk why i assumed it was alc. either way still a lot of reasons why someone wouldn’t wanna have sex that has nothing to do w not being grown

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Anonymous OP 5w

I put both. And no abstinence can be temporary. “I’m not here for hookups I’m currently abstinence”

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Anonymous #3 5w

Yes it’s mainly used for sex and alcohol. I was just clarifying😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

Human beings should also learn how to practice self control. You don’t have to jump in bed with everyone you meet on the first night

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Anonymous #1 5w

i mean ya duh😭 that's something u communicate after a few dates if u see potential with dating the person, i don't think adding it up front is smart. just go on dates w ppl in public and don't go back to their place w them before communicating that u like to take things slow

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Anonymous #2 5w

I just don’t wanna waste anyone’s time tho especially if they don’t want to wait until we’re in a serious relationship to have sex

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Anonymous #1 5w

i think "looking for long term" is a pretty clear indication of that and u can add below it "want to take things slow and get to know u" instead of directly putting abstinence on ur profile

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Anonymous #2 5w

I have done that but with men these days it usually means “long term sex” or situationships based on my previous experiences. I just wanted to try a different approach and be direct

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Anonymous #4 5w

"passed around" uh girl you're on a dating app

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