Girl Talk on Yik Yak | It’s become too normalized to shame people who like vanilla sex. And I think this puts pressure on women to partake in things like being choked or slapped even though they don’t necessarily want it.

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Girl Talk 11w

It’s become too normalized to shame people who like vanilla sex. And I think this puts pressure on women to partake in things like being choked or slapped even though they don’t necessarily want it.

Girl Talk 11w

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Anonymous 11w

facts

Anonymous 11w

fr, eroticized abuse needs to stop being normalized

Anonymous 11w

omgg someone said it!!!

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Anonymous 11w

Agree

Anonymous 11w

All the women ik say the men need to be less vanilla. And that doesn’t necessarily mean slapping and stuff, it can be other things like role play or dominating the men instead. But a lot of men don’t like that stuff and it’s boring. Just something else to spice things up would be nice yk.

Anonymous 11w

Choke and slap is pretty vanilla tbh. What do u consider non vanilla?

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Anonymous

#2 11w

i 100% agree and then we feel like we don’t deserve better than that when yes we dooo!!!!!

Anonymous

#5 11w

Like light chokes and slap

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Anonymous

#5 11w

That’s not vanilla though. Maybe for you personally but as a whole it is bdsm

Anonymous

#5 11w

Choking and slapping are both parts of bdsm, so can’t be considered actually vanilla. Really any kink is considered non vanilla, so vanilla is basically your normal sex acts with nothing added on (outdoors stuff, role play, tying, physical or emotional “punishment,” name-calling, leather, whipping/spanking, choking and slapping, and cucking to name a few are all not vanilla)

Anonymous

#8 11w

Oh I always do light slaps or choking and considering it vanilla. I’ve had girls tell me I’m too vanilla from just that. I consider non vanilla like crazy shit when you tie the bih to the ceiling or whip her or something crazy like that 😂😂😂

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Anonymous

#5 11w

That’s kinda part of the point, a lot of people think stuff like that is vanilla or just something to be expected with sex, when the reality is theres lots of people who don’t want that.

Anonymous

#7 11w

It’s awesome if someone wants to spice something up with their partner but that kind of stuff needs to be communicated. Don’t just go slapping someone because you think they’ll find it sexy. Ask what they want and what they’re comfortable with.

Anonymous

#5 11w

There are definitely things far more intense than these but I just used these examples because I think these have been very normalized.